semalam member aku tepon aku tanye khabar....tanye aku sihat ke x n etc etc...pastu die tanye pasal member2 aku yg lain...aku jwb terdaya yg mungkin....but mostly aku jwb aku xtau....hmmm....truth is...aku malas nak ambil tau dengan org yang xkisah pasal aku....i have enough friend to suffice my need....so I don't see the purpose of having unnecessary friend who thinks of your existense as nothing but a past memory....
This friend is a good friend. Aku masih igt lagi die pernah backing kawan aku mase kawan aku kena maki dengan seorg classmate aku yg kerek bley tahan...this guy is freaking mind his own business fellow, the type of guy who follows the mass but keeps his own identity and passive to the core....he is a sweet little boy who adores girls and protect them. That's why he is having difficulty to find a girlfriend...coz he's too sweet....change please...girls like jerk better than gentleman....
So this friend is a gem...he keeps finding ways to keep in touch with his friends n he cares too much...unlike me who had enough of caring the uncaring friends....And I know deep inside he feels underappreciated coz he knows full well that his friends could never care the way he cares.
Aku sebenarnye malas nak komen lebih2 pasal friendship coz i'm not a good friend myself...mcm aku pernah cakap sebelum neh...klu ko ungrateful and selfish...ko xbley la expect ko dpt kawan yg willing to sacrifice for you n mengadap ko 24 hours a day....aku adalah jenis yg susah nak refuse org yg dalam kesusahan....maksud aku sejak aku besar dan ade kepale otak ni la...dulu...hmmmm...sama taraf je.....So sedikit sebanyak aku faham apa yang mamat nih ingin sampaikan kat aku... aku xtaula a definition of true friend tu mcm mane....but for me is simple...if they willing to text u more than 10 smses for something so trivial in a day....or texting you just to hang out.....or simply texting you to call how you are doing and has no other intention besides your well being...they are good friends....Good friends don't have to be cool enough to make you feel famous...coz you are not the character in the Gossip Girl and you definitely not in need of minions to follow u around...or the other way around...having a cool friend doesn't make you cool...it only makes you look shallow...wake up...the world doesn't revolve around you....
Friend who cares about you is not a friend who leaves 1000 comments in the FB but never bother to have a face to face conversation....admit it...some friends are not worth it....coz even if you are dead...it is no concern of theirs....stop being sentimental or nostalgic...find times to get rid of these 'not-feeling-you' friend...coz they only look for you just make them feel better about themselves...or so as not to be called SNOB....or because they need help....I know it sucks losing a friend...but it is suckier to have undefined friend rather than having imaginary friends....
If your friend has becoming more and more selfish and narcissistic....stay away.....If your friend feel hurt because she thinks she doesn't deserve to be mistreated for being a bitch...just turn a cold shoulder...stop wasting your time telling her what is bothering you...trust me...they won't listen....Friendship is not about trying to maintain it....it's about living it...it's about being there and share the mutual feelings with each other...if the relationship doesn't sync...leave....
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